Dempf

Their SMART UI wasn’t really any good anyways, I always just run smartctl.

IIRC there’s a couple different ways with Caddy to replicate the letsencrypt config between instances, but I never quite got that working. I didn’t find a ton of value in a HA reverse proxy config anyways since almost all of my services are running on the same machine, and usually the proxy is offline because that machine is offline. The more important thing was HA DNS, and I got that working pretty well with keepalived. The redundant DNS server just runs on a $100 mini PC. Works well enough for me.

I forgive you.

I’m sorry for being a family member tonight at the moment I wanted to make sure to be there for you and I will be there for you and I will be there for you.

I agree, and especially when we’re talking about adults – we are always responsible for our own actions. Those around us are not responsible for us or for managing our emotions or tip toeing around our shame. Projection is one of the really toxic parts of dealing with a narcissist. They attempt to make others responsible for what belongs to them.

From what I understand people with NPD themselves suffer significantly. It is difficult to feel sorry for them, but I believe they do suffer. Emptyness, deep rooted trauma. It’s why they act the way that they do. The rage is driven by injury and pain.

That’s what I thought at first, but the video doesn’t support Gamboa raising his rifle. Video is short, and I’m not saying I know the whole story. But another likely possibility in my mind, based on the video, is that Gamboa was attempting to legally open carry. In hindsight might not be the best thing to do at a protest, but it’s his legal right. For now I think it’s best not to jump to conclusions.

Edit: video link https://imgur.com/a/z3J25EB