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kuhli@lemmy.dbzer0.comto
Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•Does anyone know what's inside this building?
18·3 days agoI mean, at least they nailed the dystopian aesthetic
kuhli@lemmy.dbzer0.comto
World News@lemmy.world•Online porn showing choking to be made illegal, government saysEnglish
2·3 days agoConsent require all parties to know the consequences to be fully informed
Yes, that’s what I said earlier:
“Consent doesn’t mean only doing things you’re into, it means you’re agreeing to it free from any pressure or influence on your decision and you know everything you need to know to make your decision.”
When I say I don’t care what people do as long as there’s consent, that’s a requirement built into that statement. The vast vast majority of choking isn’t consentual, that’s the issue we need to address.
There is no after care for brain damage. This is where the kink community needs to come together to put their foot down.
This isn’t a kink issue, it’s a mainstream issue.the kink community takes consent and safety incredibly seriously. In this case that’s stuff like roleplay choking or breathplay.
kuhli@lemmy.dbzer0.comto
World News@lemmy.world•Online porn showing choking to be made illegal, government saysEnglish
41·4 days agoOkay this comment makes me think you don’t understand consent.
If it was SO consensual why are guys not getting choked equally?
My partner has fetishes I’m not into, but I engage in them because I want to give him the pleasure he gets from them. Is that not consentual because I’m not into the fetish?
Consent doesn’t mean only doing things you’re into, it means you’re agreeing to it free from any pressure or influence on your decision and you know everything you need to know to make your decision.
I won’t be choked and I wouldn’t choke someone because it is dangerous and I’m uncomfortable with it regardless of if the other person wants it. But as long as people consent and know the risks I don’t care what others do.
The answer is it isn’t. It is about dominance and power not a consensual act.
Dominance and power can absolutely be consentually engaged in. The bdsm community takes consent incredibly seriously.
There are larger cultural elements behind what people are into that are worth examining. Cultural influence doesn’t necessarily mean it isn’t consentual though.
kuhli@lemmy.dbzer0.comto
World News@lemmy.world•Online porn showing choking to be made illegal, government saysEnglish
71·4 days agoSorry if I got off topic and triggered your misogyny.
Glad you can recognize you changed the topic.
Discussing issues of consent is valuable and important. Doing so because two adult’s consentual acts make you uncomfortable is unhelpful and actively harmful because you’re conflating consentual and non-consentual actions.
kuhli@lemmy.dbzer0.comto
World News@lemmy.world•Online porn showing choking to be made illegal, government saysEnglish
3·4 days agoMy primary concern in all this is safety. It is not safe to choke your parter even if it is agreed upon. It causes permanent damage although how much damage I suppose is debatable.
tbh I don’t care if people engage in dangerous actions as long as it’s done with informed consent.
There are major issues with people being pressured into putting up with stuff they wouldn’t otberwise but that’s a far bigger issue you don’t solve by banning media.
kuhli@lemmy.dbzer0.comto
World News@lemmy.world•Online porn showing choking to be made illegal, government saysEnglish
71·4 days agoYou’re replying to a thread that explicitly says it’s being done consentually. This is a non-sequiter.
You don’t solve non-consentual actions by complaining about two people doing the same thing consentually.
go touch grass and stop victim blaming
Yes, and male birth control doesn’t solve these problems because the only way to be 100% sure is to be on birth control yourself, especially important with huge chunks of the US banning abortions
Earlier trials saw the same thing a few percent tapping out for the same reasons.
A fee percent is quite different from what you said earlier. Basically any trial has a few percent drop out.
I’d suggest actually reading the article you’re providing as a source:
Comparing the discontinued men’s study to what we know — or don’t know — about how hormonal contraception affect women isn’t really feasible, experts said.
There’s still research underway to develop a hormonal option, Colvard noted. And many researchers said this trial provides potentially helpful insight.
Also encouraging: the fact that so many men said they would take the drug if it were available. Historically, the burden of controlling pregnancy has fallen on women, Breuner said. But now, the findings here show that may be shifting — and could in fact spur more interest on the part of drug developers.
kuhli@lemmy.dbzer0.comto
Technology@lemmy.world•The Great Software Quality Collapse: How We Normalized CatastropheEnglish
10·1 month agoA midlevel director who doesn’t use the tool but thinks all the features the salesperson mentioned seem cool
kuhli@lemmy.dbzer0.comto
News@lemmy.world•Megathread: Charlie Kirk Shot at Utah Valley University Event
0·2 months agoI’d recommend avoiding it, you can probably get a decent idea from knowing he got hit in the carotid artery.

Noones going into your home and taking features away from you, they just decided they don’t want to be putting a ton of effort into something 2 people care about.
The beauty of FOSS is devs are free to make these decisions just like you’re free to develop what you need.