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  • Noones going into your home and taking features away from you, they just decided they don’t want to be putting a ton of effort into something 2 people care about.

    The beauty of FOSS is devs are free to make these decisions just like you’re free to develop what you need.




  • Consent require all parties to know the consequences to be fully informed

    Yes, that’s what I said earlier:

    “Consent doesn’t mean only doing things you’re into, it means you’re agreeing to it free from any pressure or influence on your decision and you know everything you need to know to make your decision.

    When I say I don’t care what people do as long as there’s consent, that’s a requirement built into that statement. The vast vast majority of choking isn’t consentual, that’s the issue we need to address.

    There is no after care for brain damage. This is where the kink community needs to come together to put their foot down.

    This isn’t a kink issue, it’s a mainstream issue.the kink community takes consent and safety incredibly seriously. In this case that’s stuff like roleplay choking or breathplay.



  • Okay this comment makes me think you don’t understand consent.

    If it was SO consensual why are guys not getting choked equally?

    My partner has fetishes I’m not into, but I engage in them because I want to give him the pleasure he gets from them. Is that not consentual because I’m not into the fetish?

    Consent doesn’t mean only doing things you’re into, it means you’re agreeing to it free from any pressure or influence on your decision and you know everything you need to know to make your decision.

    I won’t be choked and I wouldn’t choke someone because it is dangerous and I’m uncomfortable with it regardless of if the other person wants it. But as long as people consent and know the risks I don’t care what others do.

    The answer is it isn’t. It is about dominance and power not a consensual act.

    Dominance and power can absolutely be consentually engaged in. The bdsm community takes consent incredibly seriously.

    There are larger cultural elements behind what people are into that are worth examining. Cultural influence doesn’t necessarily mean it isn’t consentual though.








  • I’d suggest actually reading the article you’re providing as a source:

    Comparing the discontinued men’s study to what we know — or don’t know — about how hormonal contraception affect women isn’t really feasible, experts said.

    There’s still research underway to develop a hormonal option, Colvard noted. And many researchers said this trial provides potentially helpful insight.

    Also encouraging: the fact that so many men said they would take the drug if it were available. Historically, the burden of controlling pregnancy has fallen on women, Breuner said. But now, the findings here show that may be shifting — and could in fact spur more interest on the part of drug developers.