• hoshikarakitaridia@lemmy.world
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    6 months ago

    Not only to be sure they want to talk to me but also to be sure we are still friends. I swear to god I never know, and when I risk t, it’s still feels like a 50/50 for me.

  • NoiseColor @lemmy.world
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    6 months ago

    A lot of this “Neuro divergent” stuff kids make memes about these days is actually just a normal human experience.

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      6 months ago

      Indeed, however it might be dialed up to like 300% of neurotypicals and literally damaging your body.

      So yes, some things are relatable or the typical ‘ah yes I have that sometimes’ but in absolute unrelatable overdrive.

      And trilializing traits under which people are suffering can sometimes be really discouraging or worsening depression.

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        6 months ago

        Sure, but I’m not standing next to a group of miserable “neurodivergent” kids, pointing and laughing, but dissing a meme that maybe 100 people will see and even that only because it’s got comments under it (because 3 people got offended by my comment).

        This whole thing should be a meme about how eger people are to get offended even if there is nothing there. Maybe it’s because Lemmy is so small, so there isn’t that much to get that fix from. Something worth while to think about.

        • Vivian (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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          6 months ago

          have you considered that maybe if 3 different people “get offended” by your comment, it might be cause you’re an asshole and expressing your views in a really dick-ish way and invalidating a whole group of people? Food for thought, maybe do some introspection