I’ve seen my wife open the mailbox, look at what’s in it, say “Ugh I don’t want to deal with that,” and PUT IT BACK IN THE MAILBOX
True and all, but this is an autism community. Why are there so overwhelmingly many ADHD posts here? There are ADHD communities for content like this.
I’m in this picture and I don’t like it
Confirmed ADHD.
Um… How many pieces form a pile?
I know mine’s more than I can count at a glance.
Because counting them would require touching them

I have two right now, and they might as well be a pile, knowing my patterns. They will form a basis of a good big proper pile until I have a manic episode.
I don’t like this post because I have three
Once I scan them and file them digitally I will throw them away! Any day now…
No need for scanning. I have a binder where I neatly organize them, and currently they are all shoved under the binder so that the cats won’t play with them.
I also have set up paperless for this!
I also have a very few things in paperless
I thought it was more an anxiety pile
No. I don’t check my mail to avoid it
Does it come with massive amounts of anxiety every time I look at it?
But only until you go to another room.
You can also just cover them with a pizza box.
How about if you look at that pile of mail and say oh yeah I need to read all that shit and then say I’ll do it tomorrow and then you see it again in a month and do they same shit
Or any other DOOM ( Didn’t Organize Only Move ) pile.
I have boxes for that.
I keep tuning maybe I don’t have adhd and then I read posts like this.
More like
… do you have a pile that you see every day but never touch
or more like
… do you have a pile
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When I moved house, I put all the Very Urgent Mail into a separate pile and packed it into my backpack instead of a box.
So I could go through it and do what needs doing before all the boxes are unpacked in the new house.
The pile still sits on my desk untouched, it’s been 6 months, and my cat now sits down on it whenever she wants to be left in peace. She knows I’m not gonna go near that.
I figure since no cops or court officers have shown up yet, it can’t have been that urgent after all.







