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  • It’s not just this, it’s practically every post on nd-based subs.

    “That ADHD feeling when you walk into a room and forgot why you were there”

    “Feeling awkward at the party because you have Hard Mode Brain”

    “ADHD making me hate my job amiright”

    It’s just all normal shit that almost every single person relates to but attributed to ADHD for no fucking reason at all. And the thing is, everyone seems to enjoy it. Like people here found a community centered on taking their extremely neurotypical behaviors and attributing it to a disorder they identify with. And for the most part it’s harmless. So, idk, good for them, I guess. I just find it deeply annoying hence -> I think these communities just aren’t for me.














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    6 days ago

    But then it’s not a “psychology hack for ADHD”. It’s just a normal productivity tip. Some with ADHD will find it useful, others won’t, and some NT people will find it useful, others won’t. Maybe on average it’s more beneficial for those with ADHD, but as I wouldn’t guess so. I don’t have any data/research supporting either direction though.

    Frankly I just have a distaste for the whimsicalness applied to ADHD in online discourse. We don’t need “psychology hacks” or to describe ourselves as having “hard mode brains”. It’s a disorder. Cancer patients do not have “hard mode bodies”. And the people with more severe ADHD in my experience tend to not resonate with a lot of these terms, it’s generally only people with low level ADHD or just want to pin their dysfunction on something else who resonate with this terminology.