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  • Interestingly, it’s not about the look of genitalia specifically.

    For example, I happen to be a hetero person, yet I appreciate both genitals equally. What matters is how feminine the carrier is. I’ll appreciate a nice dick on a beautiful woman, but on a man…ew. Same with vaginas - if it belongs to a woman, it can be very arousing, but you won’t find trans men in my bedroom.

    It’s the same genitals, but their perception is wildly different.





  • The rise of self-hosted option comes from the distrust of the Big Tech and the desire to avoid a single point of failure.

    Sure, commercial solutions are better hardened, but they are also more likely to be attacked in the first place. And nothing is there to protect you from the prying eyes of those who host it for you, which is a valid threat as well.

    Still, one thing better, privacy-wise, than having your own server is to not rely on any servers to begin with.


  • Quite some people do, so it’s great such options exist.

    My own gripe is with self-hosted apps that don’t need a server to begin with.

    Why do I have to run a server to manage my bookmarks? Write down recipes? Control available stock? Manage finances?

    All that can be done via local-first apps that may then have some backup functionality (or have files in one place so I could sync them). Adding a server layer only adds complexity and forces me to keep it on or toggle every time, affecting performance and battery life.