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Cake day: December 25th, 2023

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  • Because anything can be framed negative and without transparency about your personal ruleset on what those empty words mean it’s just Fox News brabble.

    It’s not about tolerating intolerance, not at all. It’s about transparent consistency. That’s what preventing the powertrip: rules that you create AND THEN OBEY. Doesn’t matter what those rules are. But if you’re definition of occupation suddenly matches Medicaid I’d the mrdown fan club then you need to support people discussing it.

    That’s the whole difference.

    Btw your sentence a bit changed is what the trump goons actually use at the moment: “why should anyone tolerate criminals?”. And those fuckers just declared anything they don’t like “illegal”.

    That’s what I’m asking: that everyone has the space to grow. That’s why I recommend you to create transparent rules that you obey yourself: to not become like those shitheads. Because they are full of people absolutely sure if themselves with no way to reflect, no way to think.


  • Just from an outside perspective:

    you’re playing the same game die a different side. What kind of consistent ruleset warrants a delete and ban for this?

    Power tripping for the right cause is still a powertrip.

    Edit: I just realize that just leaving it like this reads purely confrontational which was not my original inten:

    You can do better! If you want to have this kind of moderation that is actually fine in my book: as long as it’s transparent and consistent.

    The exact rule must depend on the answer to what kind of community you want to build. Openly progressive vs openly debating vs aggressively neutral for example.

    I know you can do it, because anyone who has the energy to take on this endeavor has the potential to grow ❤️.


  • Hey friend,

    Honestly I don’t understand what the difference would be for you.

    There’s no badge or membership. Personally I had three benefits of my diagnosis (which is two decades back by now and was as an adult):

    I had an easier time understanding my own brain and… Well world perception.

    I was able to easier look for help and talk about it.

    I was able to test medication (didn’t work our for me back then she took side effects but that’s a different story).

    To get a strangers “judgment”: If you just want an excuse for your low energy and failing here and there you don’t have it. If you want guidance and new approaches to improve your life for yourself and then here’s your diagnosis: one of us!

    Either way I wish you the best :)