First few time I opened vim (will neovim) I failed to see how to enter a command, and closed the window to get out of it

Those don’t even really hurt, there more of just annoying for a while.

Hey I can consistently get that around my 4th try

One on the left, the question is not "which one is ‘red’ "

Well if they don’t someone else will

The real problem is when people gatekeep cool open source projects. Not a great way to grow a community.