Strange judging only by how good they are with computers. They might have some other valuable skills that gets them paid highly.

It seems people in the comments here missed the “with wives” part. Generally speaking, your wife is not going to be terribly pleased with you ogling or getting off to other women. And violating that is what makes these men count as weird.

I’m an exmuslim and dont see the point of desecration. It isnt going to change anyones mind or bring me acceptance (in fact I’d argue it will do the opposite). I want my worldview to be seen as rational and respectable, not angry and represented by empty acts.

I will however defend the right to criticize and say controversial things about Islam that have actual substance to them.