a large part of this is because she’s a woman.

the slogan I’ve seen on some shirts, “Good thing we are only looking for equality and not revenge” comes to mind.

Dems need all 3 (presidency, house of reps, Senate) to do pretty much anything.

Thats not how politics works buddy. If what you said were true neither the dems or republicans would have passed any bills in the history of the “republic”. Clearly theres also horse trading, and bribery/lobbying you are pretending dont exist in order to make this weak point.