I have a friend now who does this. He gets so angry about it as well and since I know him best he always vents to me and says why do we always change things. He eventually apologizes and expresses he just cant handle it.
The worst one was last year we were taking 2 cars with 6 friends to a place for a weekend. Original plan was that i was going to pick him up and 1 other person thats near him and go up. Then our 2nd friend who was driving got out early so we could all go and i said in the chat sweet can you get the 2 near him and ill now get the other 2 and we all meet at a place to eat first before driving up. He side text me how wrong it was and why do we always change things until i said in the main chat ill just take the original ppl nevermind lol. It was just more convienent because the orher friend was closer to them and i was closer to the other 2, but even different cars made his mind freak out.
sounds just like him. thing is some of it was not even plans it would be like he would suggest some generic activity and someone would have an opporutnity like free tickets to something and he would be upset. Or like if other people came along. The rest of us pretty much were more the merrier and lets do what seems the best thing to do when you get to that time like friday or sat night. I mean its freakin high school man.
I had a freind in high school who would get so upset by a change in plans.
I have a friend now who does this. He gets so angry about it as well and since I know him best he always vents to me and says why do we always change things. He eventually apologizes and expresses he just cant handle it.
The worst one was last year we were taking 2 cars with 6 friends to a place for a weekend. Original plan was that i was going to pick him up and 1 other person thats near him and go up. Then our 2nd friend who was driving got out early so we could all go and i said in the chat sweet can you get the 2 near him and ill now get the other 2 and we all meet at a place to eat first before driving up. He side text me how wrong it was and why do we always change things until i said in the main chat ill just take the original ppl nevermind lol. It was just more convienent because the orher friend was closer to them and i was closer to the other 2, but even different cars made his mind freak out.
sounds just like him. thing is some of it was not even plans it would be like he would suggest some generic activity and someone would have an opporutnity like free tickets to something and he would be upset. Or like if other people came along. The rest of us pretty much were more the merrier and lets do what seems the best thing to do when you get to that time like friday or sat night. I mean its freakin high school man.
Yeah that’s cool if you’re neurotypical, but not everyone is like that
yeah or non neurotypical in that thing. the group was full of individuals but that was his defining thing. others in the group had their things.
Right, right ofc. We’re all facets of the beautiful human kaleidescope