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Cake day: July 2nd, 2023

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  • I don’t want anyone to take this the wrong way, but nearly every comment in here is from the perspective of someone who’s unsatisfied with how they were raised. What is it about Lemmy that this is the subset of the population they attract?

    And I’ll just say, my parents were far from perfect, but I am also far from perfect, and I understand that we’re all just human beings out here, and that there is no guidebook on life, so we take these journeys around the sun at face value and muck along until we die.

    But yeah, this thread is one of many where I’ve read similar stories from just about every comment. It’s just strange to me that you don’t get someone in here saying, yeah, good to have a mom who can help. It’s all the opposite.


  • That’s part of it. I tell my kids all the time, I’m just a guy. I tell them I don’t have all the answers, but I can find them if I put some effort in. I tell them I make mistakes, and that sometimes I’ll do bad dad stuff. I understand this about my parents as well. I still value their input because I’m sure they felt the same way I do, but somehow we made it out the other side, and so I’m interested in hearing their experience on the journey.

    I’m fortunate to live in a fairly dense piece of suburbia, we have six or seven other families on the street with similar aged kids, and so I get to observe the rest of my peers, their strengths and their foibles, and we talk about it. It’s okay to mess up, just gotta take responsibility.

    And as always, just go out there and have fun.



  • My preferred beef, personally, is from local farms, and so I’m all about the idea about smaller farms. I’d be lying if I said I didn’t buy from factory farms, chicken, beef, and pork, but I try to go local when possible.

    Although as I’m writing this, I’m really not sure if local meats and their prices are affected much by the factory farms.

    So yeah, I guess all I mean is that I’m totally cool with an America that has fewer factory farms, the operations, from top to bottom, seem to thrive on just terrible conditions, environmentally and all. And I’m also cool with the massively wealthy families who own these farms maybe feeling a squeeze.