



So, I’m in my 40s, and have never really used noise cancellation. My brain has had all of the time in the world to learn how to do this. Instead, it chooses to amplify and focus on background noise.
Having a conversation in a noisy public space is literally just me doing my best to guess what you are saying at any given time. All I hear is a loud hiss of crowd noise.
Each of the small arrows are individually obvious.
Pick the right one.


Ah yes, you know someone with sufficiently manageable issues and who can mask well enough for you, and therefore everybody else should be able to do the same! Because all people with disabilities are the same.
JFC.


Your actions affect others. If you’re being a slob, that’s your responsibility.
And what business is it of yours what state my desk, my room, or my home is in? How are you actually affected?
You’re not. Fuck off.
I starter SSRIs last month. With those and some support from my wife, I’ve gotten through this Christmas shockingly intact. Got my shopping done. Wrappped everything. Made breakfast for 9, and got the turkey in the oven before 10 am. Had a small period of overwhelm while everyone was opening gifts, but no meltdowns.
Best Christmas in several years!
This is really important to remember. The diagnosis is that your life is sufficiently disordered to need meaningful accommodations or support due to your autistic traits, not whether you have autistic traits. And whether you need accommodations or support is entirely a judgement call, being made from someone not living your life.
Laziness has ALWAYS been derided as a character flaw.
This is a nonsequitor. Masturbation has also long been vilified. Doesn’t make it not pleasurable. In fact, many things that are pleasurable are framed as character flaws by people who believe they will benefit from your self-denial.

Anarchism accounts for them just fine. The solution is to kick them out of society.
It’s just a damn shame that we’ve all proven to be cowards and unwilling to do it.
Do… Do you actually think you’re being downvoted by people cheering on Johnny Fuckinf Depp? Or are you just whining because you’re learning that your bad takes are also bad?