What if you like to be in a committed relationship with one person and build a life together, developing deep emotional bonds over many years, but also enjoy having sex with many different people?

Careful research.

You can’t really call it slop just because you disagree with their views and representations of things.

Their stuff is carefully researched and sourced, human crafted and open to critique. Whether they’re correct in their assessments or not is of course up for debate, but it’s good craftsmanship and they show their work.