I’ll write something here later probably. In the meantime, hi to whoever’s reading this I hope you get a chance to enjoy something kind today :)

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Cake day: February 3rd, 2025

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  • My apologies- to clarify my sympathy was about being treated as needing medication for your ability to see the world differently.

    Thank you for the info dump actually! I’m also autistic and getting to learn about how you experience, process and approach things has been enlightening and fascinating (in a respectful, peer-to-peer way of course).

    There is certainly something to be said for both finding you’re not alone in a unique situation, and learning to embrace the way you are to navigate a better life. It’s awesome that you did all that for your kids too; they’re very lucky.





  • Hey bangs are nice :( just not DIY bangs that stem from “ohmygod-my-hair-is-too-heavy-gtfo-my-face” energy, which is hard to resist.

    Every time I get a haircut I like going shorter though, just a matter of convincing the stylist to let me get a mullet/undercut since they think it’ll “look like a bad haircut” and seem convinced it’ll ruin their reputation lol. Just let me indulge my trashy instincts please and thank you! 😂




  • Holy hell your coach is an asshat I’m so sorry. It takes a lot to keep your cool on top of accomplishing all you did, especially when you weren’t feeling good!

    Since he won’t say it, you did great and should be proud of yourself. Might not mean as much coming from an internet stranger but you’ve got this.

    Hope you can get some better rest and enjoy the remainder of your trip best you can. Sending calm and positive vibes your way 🌸


  • Trans people, by mere existence, threaten the status quo in the eyes of these losers.

    Think about it - if you can do something to escape the misery you were born into and have agency of your own body, then it’s harder for aggrieved reactionaries to enforce the rigid hierarchy they think they’re entitled to. Suddenly their easy in to a luxurious job is threatened, and they may actually have to compete for positions of power, or even a nicer house.

    They want control, and they want higher status over other people. Happiness for those who question the “superiority” of the dominant lifestyle and dogma isn’t allowed. Conform to the caste system or be punished - and they take delight in punishing their “lessers.”