I’m not sure if this is an ADHD related thing so I want some feedback.

For the longest time whenever I try to communicate an idea, a process, a plan, a piece of information … I’m oftentimes either not taken serious or people misunderstand me.

I know for myself that I sometimes skip steps in my explanation because I feel they’re too obvious to bother explaining. But sometimes it’s ridiculous to the point where I feel like people are out to dismiss me not on the basis of the information I’m providing.

Does this resonate with anyone?

  • acockworkorange@mander.xyz
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    7 hours ago

    Communicating effectively is a skill that requires feedback and practice to hone. Try to find a couple of people which you trust to give you honest constructive criticism.

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      6 hours ago

      Additional advice: before starting, think carefully about what is the assumed knowledge of the audience (what are you sure they know already, what you m should you double check on).

      For training, explaining something simple to someone that doesn’t know about it is a great first step. Encourage feedback and questions.

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        5 hours ago

        “Stop talking down to me.” - willfully ignorant person.

        Seriously though, that is great advice and involves continual practice.